As J.R.R. Tolkien said, “Not all those who wander are lost.”
However, the page you’ve tried to find does seem to be. Find your way back here.
“The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing . . . not healing, not curing . . . that is a friend who cares.”